Life Challenges

Life is funny but not always easy, the challenges lies in facing those realities with courage & not disappointing at the lows of life’s & thinking that’s illusion.

Difficulties are part of life but avoiding them is what always leads to the same repetition of mistakes & remember I specifically experienced when you don’t learn a  that your life’s experiences teaches you, it will come back to you anyhow & make you learn until you , ,  &  it.
Thus, life is beautiful & enjoy it hard it will all shine from within when you start believing yourself.

Faith: A hope or an illusion 

Life has a variety of answers but it only describes us in the way we deal with the questions & when we try to understand the question we all have actually answered those all false or we need to improve on those to understand life from the better perspective view.
Faith is something which push us into the belief of something which leads to hope, trust, confidence & they are without the real evidence of sight, sound, & touch which might happen through our imaginary world or an expectation towards or beyond the truth if the process is positive.


Negative aspects is just an illusion leading to a false hope towards a life.

We all have seeds of basic within us we just need to  them.

Life is not about something we expect, hope, or keeping a faith its all about how with all this values we are making it implement in our life positively, making an effort towards our goals, accepting the lows, realising, learning & mastering it.

The only calamity 

Human ignorance, human inability to understand life – the possibilities, limitations and the ultimate nature of     life – this ignorance is the biggest calamity. There is only one calamity – that is ignorance. And there is only one solution – that is enlightenment. The only solution is for one to seek to know the nature of life. And there is no other place for him to know than through himself.
What is termed “self-knowledge” is not something that someone seeks in some Himalayan caves. If you want to handle life well, it is important that you know it well. The better you know it, the better you can handle it. If you know this piece of life absolutely from its origin to its ultimate, there will be no calamity in your life. You will be able to go through every stage and every process of life gracefully. 

Life of a civil engineer 

There is a saying “Always thank a civil engineer for the water you drink, the food you eat and the house you live in”.

It always feels good to see those magnificent structures. Those skyscrapers built across the cities, the state of the art public transport systems, the drive on those national highways. But behind all those structures, lies a life of a civil engineer which is technically, emotionally and mentally challenged everyday. How exactly is the life of a civil engineer? I am writing today based on my own experience and from the experience of others who have been working for a long time in this industry.


What I Learnt so far is,

1. We work in filthy places and in a filthier environment. We start work at a place when there is nothing except dirt.

2. We work in worst scenarios and worst of weathers. When we say office, please don’t confuse with air-conditioned offices of those working in software firms. Our offices mostly build in Containers or tents. Yes that’s true. And they are worse than the hostels in which you live during your college days.

3. Internet, 3G and 4G networks are a forgotten dream. You live a life devoid of anything connecting you to the society. You won’t even find time to socialise. You are almost cut off from the society.

4. You visit the remotest of Places where even human habitat can’t reach. Funny but true!

5. You work 14-15 hrs every day and continuously round the clock. The good thing is that work is not monotonous. You have to execute work on site and at the same time in office preparing a schedule for it and your future plans.

6. Clean food and drinking water might be available. But in some cases it might not.

7. Your everyday life runs on jugaad be it on the technical front or personal. You have to do a jugaad for everything. Because the resources are limited and the stakes are high.

8. “Safety First” is just a thing to say & market and everyday safety will be compromised knowingly or unknowingly. Adventurous! Isn’t it?

9. You will have a faceoff with new type of politics that governs the corporate world. You will learn what hypocrisy actually is. If you speak Hindi, congratulations! Because everyone can understand you but you can’t understand everyone. So at times it might happen that you are abused in regional language and you might answer it with a “Thank You”.

10. You will believe on one principle that “All Work and No Play” only pays.

11. You will have to work with different variety of people and belonging to every socio-economic class. From sensitive to insensitive. From bold to cowards. From Kashmiri to Malayalam and from Gujaratis to Bengalis.

12. You will have to learn some basics of the native language where you are working. But I feel it helps you in certain way because it helps you learn different languages.

13. You will learn how to talk to people belong to different socio-economic background i.e. from Labour class to Top Management. This will teach you what to speak and when to speak. The essentials of good communication.

14. At times you will also have to deal with Mafias because construction industry is governed by them only. And you are totally on your own. No one takes responsibility for your actions. You might also have to face rebel from the locals and FIRs and Policing is a common phenomenon.

15. The good part is that you have enough justice with your salary because you will have a limited time and options to spend.

Tuff! Isn’t it. Yes that is how a civil engineer lives his life in construction industry. It is a mind boggling experience. But with time you realise that you can be the best in the worst. You will become a complete engineer. When a structure is completed at a place when there was nothing, it fills you with a sense of pride that is inexplicable and incomparable. It is one field where you directly touch people’s life. 

Happy Engineers Day

To give a real service, you must add something which cannot be bought or measured in money

Sir Mokshagundam Visvesvarayya
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Engineers’ Day is celebrated on September 15 every year in India commemorating the birthday of one of the greatest engineers in India so far and a great human being Sir Mokshagundam Visvesvarayya, popularly known as Sir MV.

We, the engineers are the engines of country, driving it to prosperity. The country thrives on the dedication and works of engineer. Every year, 15th Sept is celebrated as engineers day in the birth memory of Sir Mokshagundam Visvesvaraya, finest civil engineer of his time. The one whose works are panacea till date.

Engineers are the professionals who design, build and test the construction, raw materials and process of the project; they also consider the restrictions imposed by the regulation, feasibility, safety and cost of the project. Engineers play a very significant role in every walk of our lives. They convert the theoretical knowledge of basic sciences into actual products and thus make our lives easy. Engineers possess versatile minds and help in filling the gap between science, technology and the community. Engineers in India contribute greatly to the nation’s technological and industrial growth.

Engineering, once the most reverred profession in India stands as admonished profession now. The coherent story for jobless engineers starts with those who while sitting in oppostition alleges government as “Suit Boot Ki sarkaar“.
While they were soaked in graft, they turned education into business.
Engaging large corpprates to open engineering colleges all across the country by giving away licenses against money even to those which didn’t had even basic amenities to fulfill the needs of an engineering college. Engineering and doctor being the most reverred professions in country, students flocked these colleges with a dream of becoming engineers, credibility is all set of a different issue.

Engineers have been the most instrumental characters for the development of any nation. India is achieving great recognition as a developing nation in the international world and this has been possible due to the significant role of Indian Engineers.

A messege to depressed people

The most important thing that happening in your life right now is that you are alive. 
Suppose tommorow morning you lost half of your money and feeling depressed and your mind says I want to die, do one activity

just close your mouth hold your nose just for 2 minutes,   eventually your body says
to hell with your money I want to live ….. 
Tomorrow morning you will found your love affair collapse and your mind says I want to die just repeat the activity …
Again your body will say to hell with your Iove affair I want to live ……

Every time you find yourself little depressed just check with you with that , your body and the life within you say
I want to live.
Thus,  most important you will have is life itself. Not fancy thoughts that you have,
not the emotions that you have and not the financial arrangement that you have.
Because these are the accessories to life and these are all frills.

Right now most people thinking life means their job, life means new house which they building,  life means their children their family , but isn’t really true ? No

Life means that within you , life means which is throbbing in you.

Don’t be dead serious about life

Stop being dead serious about life .

Loose a little bit , laugh a little more,
involve yourself with the people around you.

Do things that you think not so important.
Do simple things.
Very important you will do simple things.
Very important things you are doing in your life you will become dead serious.

An Englishmen said
If you beginning to think that what are you doing is very important than you need to take a holiday….
Holiday is every day in those 24 hours
and you must take a holiday from your seriousness.

Seriousness comes essentially because of your self importance.
You hold yourself as a important person.
But the reality is that you are a speck of dust in this existence.
Tommorow morning if you will disappear for sure only a handfull of people will miss you around and nobody else will , even down under they won’t bother much, infact those handfull of people who miss you will forget soon after.
Nature does ‘Whoop’ and you are gone,
and nothing will happen in the world.
Everything will happen wonderfully well even if you are not there.
Every human being should be aware of this every moment of his life , it does not matter what the world says about you.
It does not matter how significant the work you are doing , you must understand tommorow morning the world will go on fine without you.
Whoever you may be .
Isn’t it so ….?
If you constantly reminding yourself of this fact then you will have no reason to be serious.
Definitely not dead (serious) and don’t be dead now , a time will come.

It’s time to be alive.

Complexity of thoughts 

We want to get attention from other …once  I feel avoided I realised I’m not as good as  I   have to  be ..

Well positivity in environment  is necessity of better times.
We should have more courage to face failure as well as bitter truth as we can’t run this world by our own desires .
And Make yourself free from all these drama arround the world as your reaction doesn’t going to affect the inevitable which will happen, rather it will affect you as a person .
so keep calm, Keep doing your work on its merit and leave the rest on God.

Beautiful People 

The most beautiful people we know are those …
Who have –known defeat 
                   -known struggle 
                   – known loss
And have found their way out of depths.

These persons have an appreciation,
 a sensitivity, and an understanding of life
that fills them with compassion, gentleness
and a deep loving concern.


Beautiful people do not just happen….

Who Is A Man

A man is a beautiful part of God’s creation who starts compromising at a very tender age.

He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.

He sacrifices his dreams for just a smile on his parents face.

He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the lady he loves just to see her smiling.

He sacrifices his full youth for his wife & children by working late at night without any complain.

He builds their future by taking loans from banks & repaying them for lifetime.

He struggles a lot & still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife & boss.

His life finally ends up only by compromising for others’ happiness.

If he goes out, then he’s careless

If he stays at home, then he’s a lazy

If he scolds children, then he’s a monster

If he doesn’t scold, then he’s a irresponsible guy

If he stops wife from working, then he’s an insecure guy

If he doesn’t stops wife from working, then he’s somebody who lives on wife’s earnings.

If he listens to mom, then he’s mama’s boy

If he listens to wife, he’s wife’s slave

Respect every male in your life. U will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Worth sending to every man to make him smile & every woman to make her realize his worth!