If you learn to be loving by your own nature not because of somebody else or something else, if you just become love and not loving somebody, then you will know the nature of love. If you love somebody, it’s a fickle happening, because no human being will happen a hundred percent the way you want them. Every human being on this planet is going to disappoint you believe me, not because they will do something wrong but because nobody can fulfill the unrealistic expectations you have of them . It is simply not possible. So stop seeking love in others and rather become that love itself.