The urge to do more for me comes from seeing someone better than me in that same filed and context. So in a manner I can say that sometimes a little bit of positive comparison helps me to improve and achieve and seek what I had never before.
It advices me to do the things in different possible ways and it enlightens me for the paths ahead.
As we know, everyone had his flaws and no one is flawless and so on they do have postive things also. Then why the hell we are centring the negativity and flaws of someone. Let’s make a change, why shouldn’t we focus on the postive things someone have. It will give you something to learn and something to add in your armory of self development. It will also create a healthy environment around you.
Here are some points might help us.
1. Find the optimistic viewpoint in a negative situation.
2. Cultivate and live in a positive environment.
3. To be able to avoide negative aspect and recieve something positive from someone will help you to to have influences in your life that support you and lift you up instead of dragging you down.
4. Learn to avoide critisims and Learn to take criticism upon you in a healthy way.
Hence, it is clear that those who are looking for faults in others usually spend no time to correct their own. So, say goodbye to all those negativity which you usually see in others and try to observe some positive things which might help you in developing a better human being.